QUESTIONS MUST ASK THEMSELVES BEFORE GOING INTO MARRIAGE BY. MILDRED KINGSLEY OKONKWO.
Singles are the ones who still have the chance or privilege to get it right. My dear, being single is not a punishment, it is not a curse rather it is a blessing.
Singlehood is a season for you to know yourself better instead of trying to date others, date yourself, it is a season of blessing and a season you should maximize your time very well.
To go into marriage, there are several questions you need to answer before you go into marriage, which includes;
* Does this relationship worship God: Every part of your life matters to God. If your relationship somehow reduces your divinity and also make you question your Christianity then it doesn’t make sense to take it to the next level, make sure that the person you are planning to marry does not make you to hide your spirituality. God must be involved in every area of your relationship, your relationship must glorify God.
* Is your relationship working; so many people get into marriage when your relationship is not really working, you just want to get married. Some of us go into marriage through some fake prophecies, now your marriage is having problem, where are those prophecies. Don’t rush into marriage because you think your time is going, don’t allow anyone to put pressures on you. Someone trained you in school is not a guarantee to marry that person.
Make sure that there is a connection in your relationship before proceeding to marriage.
* Does it worth it; Don’t marry someone because you want to change your name, make sure it worth it, has your relationship benefited you in any way, is there any change in your life through that relationship, is there any reason you should take your relationship to the next level.
Marriage is not a contract that can expire, it is a lifetime commitment.
Be wise when making decisions and in making those decisions, learn to ask for the grace of God so that you won’t make a mistake when choosing a life partner.