FIVE T’S THAT SHOWS THAT YOUR MARRIAGE IS GOING DOWN
PASTOR KINGSLEY OKONKWO.
There are about five T’s that shows that your marriage is going down, they include:
*Talking: if you are not talking to your partner, that marriage or relationship is going down.When there is no more communication in a marriage or relationship, that relationship will start going down, and when you mistakenly talk to each other, you only discuss on the welfare of their children, you guys no longer talk about how you feel for each other, how you met, what to do in other to spice up your relationship.
Communication is one of the best ways to sort out issues because your partner won’t know what is wrong with you until you talk it out.
*Touch: it is not only when you want to have sex that you can touch each other, at times hug each other, kiss, hold hands and make yourselves feel special because that is one the things that makes marriage sweet.
*Trust: when trust goes down in a marriage or relationship, that relationship is really going down.Can you trust your partner, can you trust your partner with your finances.Trust needs to be rebuilt if you have lost it. You don’t ask for trust, you earn trust, so if you have ever broken your partner’s trust, do all you can to earn it back.
*Togetherness: there should be togetherness in marriage, everything should be done together in marriage. Good couples are compatible by chance while great couples are compatible by choice, i.e good couples do things together when there is a chance for it while great couples do things together by their choice and they do it intentionally.
*Time:there are certain amount of hours couples need to spend time in a week, you create time to spend with each other.
Spending time with your partner requires sacrifice and marriage is all about sacrifice.
You should not allowed your partner to feel less important because of how you treat each other.
Marriage is sweet if you know how to make it work.